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How does one succeed in life?

09.06.2025 03:27

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why do our deceased do not protect us from other bad spirits?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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That's it for today.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What I need from you?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What would you do if you found out that someone had broken into your home while you were sleeping?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Ask yourself:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.